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I’m 15. Today I found out my mum has breast cancer. Many, many women on my mums side had breast cancer. Some died from it, some died from other cancers. My nan also died this year, four months ago. I felt like I didn’t do enough to show her I loved her even though I knew she was fucking dying and I didn’t even send a fucking card because I was trying to push it all away. We visited my nan about a month before she passed and I was so awkward with her, I wanted her to know I loved her so so much but all the rest of the family was there and I just felt uncomfortable and I wish I did so much more. I don’t want to lose my mum, I love her so so much. I won’t have had the opportunity to pay her back for all the good she’s done for the world, and for us kids. Oh gosh I don’t know what to do. I want to fix all the wrong that’s happening.
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First, i am sorry to hear about your grandmother and your mother. And i know you are scared and you just want everything to be fixed, so my advice for you is to:
1- Pray and seek God. I dont know if you are religious or not but try praying to God. He will listen to you and he will comfort you. You just need to talk to him and ask for his help. He will be there for you, because he loves you. And even if things dont go the way you want it to, dont resent Him, because the things that happens to you here on earth is for a reason. May it for you to become stronger for what else is coming. But always know that he has a good destination prepared for all of us, we just need to pray and seek Him and open our hearts to him.
2- I understand that your grandmother is gone. I also lost a few important people in my life. And i never told them how much i loved them when they were still alive, however it doesnt mean we cant tell them now. What i do is look up into the sky or pray and i talk to them. It sounds silly but trust me they are listening to you. I know because i feel it and that makes me happy.
I hope i helped somehow.
ReplyHas her cancer metastasized to another part of her body? Metastatic breast cancer kills, but if it hasn’t metastasized then she can likely be cured.
I have the kind that kills. Most people don’t, so if it hasn’t spread she has a very good chance she will be just fine.
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