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Pain Changes People
2 years ago · · Emotional Pain,
Pain is often an unwanted, uninvited experience..the creation of these feelings that circulate your mind, body and soul.
Pain is inevitable, pain is the part of life that can determine you are as a person....a human being, whether physical or emotional, from a young age we all eventually experience pain, it could be the pain of falling off your bike while trying to grasp the concept of controlling the pedals.
However, as you grow up some situations seem impossible to control..we often speak of what pain is, but not the way it makes us feel, pain changes people...it changes their outlook and perception on life, love...and the list goes on, as you experience heartache...the raw ache you get as you flood your pillow with tears at night desperately trying to catch your breath,
but then it happens,
you let down your walls of security and insecurity for that person that says 'trust me', you open your heart because you want to feel happiness. You take the word 'trust' and break down the insecurities for this person...your person, but in the end, they hurt you, despite the promises they made.
The pain of someone leaving hurts the most....the addiction you developed for the way this person made you feel.
Now after true heartache you build your walls thicker than before and it takes more than just 'trust me' to break them down again.
And you lose...not only 'your person' but you lose a part of yourself, your'e left sad and alone, filled with overflowing questions that stay longer with you than the person who said they 'cared' and your pain breaks you down into a shallow mess that this person once could build up
But pain can make or break you, you either become decreasingly happy and spontaneous or increasingly desperate for happiness.
Pain changes you to be your own superhero , you learn from the pain to change you to be stronger, to build yourself back up, to be the person you want to be...
because in the end, pain only changes you...
if you let it.