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im 16, and im turning into one of those boy crazy girls. i don't want a short relationship that doesnt mean anything tho. im craving one that actually matters, i want love. the problem is that i can't turn it off. i literally can't. i can't stop thinking about guys, i can't stop imagining them as my boyfriend and being there for me. every time i meet a new guy, i automatically imagine how they would be as my bf. (im not a whore, im still a virgin and i don't plan on losing it to someone meaningless) but i just want someone who i can love and who can love me. i know everyone says love comes when you stop looking for it, but i can't turn the boy crazy off. i hate it. i hate how it consumes me. i hate it.
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I totally get what you mean. I used to be this way. Don't let it make you feel bad. It probably means that you have a lot of love to give and you're excited for that time of life. I think it can become too much though, and it sounds like you don't like that the thoughts are consuming you. My best advice is to be kind to yourself about having these feelings, but when they arise, try to remember how you don't want them to consume your life. Being 16 is a very exciting time in your life. It's a great time to work on yourself, find new hobbies, read, and think about who you want to be and try to start becoming that. Finding a boyfriend will be exciting but there's so much more to life than that. Hope many wonderful things come your way!
Replyomg i needed this so much. tysm!!!
ReplyYou probably won’t listen to me but I’ll go ahead and say it . If you can make it to 18 as a virgin and not gain weight . You can have the best kind of man possible and live the best possible life . Again this probably falls on deaf ears.
Replyno no no i totally hear you. i actually might do just that and wait. i mean there's literally no guys who arent trash where i am so i think i will just wait. thank you!!
ReplyI understand. I can relate. This is the same thought I had in your age and still have it. But we have to understand our thoughts do not make us an immoral person. What we crave for are affection, love and respect from people., preferably those we are attracted to. And that is completely natural. With time you would be able to accept the thoughts without judging them. That is the best way to move on in life. Being at peace with our mind and body.
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