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My mom and dad are making EVERYTHING in my life miserable and confusing!!!
4 years ago · 1 · Stress, +1
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I am a normal 13-year-old Muslim girl, even though sometimes I don't feel like the religion I am. Of course I believe in god and everything that Islam believes in, but I just don't like the hard parts like praying and fasting and wearing a scarf and covering your body head to toe and stuff. I like to talk to my friends and I occasionally swear, and sometimes are conversations aren't always PG. But COME ON! Don't tell me you haven't had one dirty conversation with someone. Anyways, so since I don't have a phone (I still get teased for that) I use my sister's phone to text my friends. And since my sister has an insta, my friend Hannah (fake name btw) decided to dm me about these 2 youtubers, Cody Ko and Noel Miller. They have a podcast and a music group, both of which are called TMG (Tiny Meat Gang). They are super funny (not always appropriate, but super funny). We were talking about their videos (not appropriate, may I remind you) and then my mom comes in my room (without knocking UGH!) and she's like "what r u doing?". She takes the phone and leaves and i'm like "oh shooot" later my sister is like "moma says ur not allowed to use my phone bc of the messages" and I'm like, ok I get that I shouldn't have been talking about...um... stuff with my friends, but NOT ALLOWED TO USE THE PHONE PERIOD?!?!? Ok I HAVE had some trust issues in the past, but I do feel bad about everything I did. And now my mom trusts me less, and she's ignoring me. Like I'm not joking she's been ignoring me for the past 2 moths bc of trust issues and my arguing. But what do you expect? I don't know how to fix anything and I am freaking out. Help! I recognize my faults, but I feel like the crack in the iceberg between me and my parents is getting bigger and bigger. And one day the two icebergs will separate from each other and drift off. Is there even a point to living? I feel unloved and I feel like my parents don't give me freedom! I really need help!
-13 and Depressed (lol)
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I understand your pain and suffering. But baby this is very funny to me.
Things you’ve just written is the same story of my lil’ sister. She’s 13 , Muslim yeah’ and she’s not allowed to use phone. She doesn’t even know the password. Because of her random idiotic chatting with her friends.
But I have given her enough life lessons that she has literally understood what life actually means.
But since I’m an elder sister who’s 18.
I’m a bit mature. IK she can’t go without using phone all day. I pretty much allow her to do stuffs like listening to music and watching stuffs in YouTube.
You are just like a sister to me. We’ve been through all you are going through now. You’re in your teen and baby teenagers are obviously hard to handle. We’re like the fragile being. We’re easily broken. It’s our duty to keep up ourself. It’s okay that you don’t feel like giving into the religion but yeah. Cuz right now you’re really just a kid.
Enjoy your life you way.
Make more friends.
Make memories.
It doesn’t matter if you use phone or not. Your parents are just being OVER PRETECTIVE . Just as mine. I’m 18 and I don’t even use insta or WhatsApp. Here iam being anonymous. So yeah . We’ll live life like humans do. Talk to each other . Hold hands . Hug each other. And be friendly in person. Internet is totally taking over human life anyway.
Enjoy when you are still a kid.
You are a cute lil naughty kid.
Be responsible enough.
Take part in everything.
Swearing and all that is never gonna spoil you. So don’t you bout’ that.
I swear a hell lot.
Lov ya🖤
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