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I recently joined a sports team with a really tight knit group of other girls, sounds awesome right? Our team plays division two soccer, we almost always win, and everyone is so nice. But I know that they talk about certain other teammates behind their back, that I don’t necessarily love, but everyone deserves to be treated equally. And I can’t help but think, do they talk about me? I’m kind of strange I guess in their eyes.... Whenever we do team things outside of practice and games with partners, I’m always the last to be chosen and I don’t really have any old friends on the team. Is that normal? We’ve played a season so far together, and I feel like they should be more comfortable around me. Am I just overreacting? Or do they really not like me enough? When will I be good enough? Does it just need more time?
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There’s no need to panic, don’t worry, I’ve been there... It’s normal for friends to talk behind others’ backs, and unless you hear a rumour about yourself, there’s no need to panic. Hope that helps.
ReplyYou're not overreacting. Chances are, they do talk about you behind your back. You do need time. Time for yourself. Why do you give a damn about what they may or may not say? We all confide in other people and often say things we've been thinking in our heads. Unless there's anything really major that you know of, dgaf. They probably aren't even saying anything bad about you to go back to my first point.
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