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I've been seeing someone for more than one month and things are kind perfectly fine, we have fun and all except he acts so weird sometimes. He doesn't like planning so we don't really know when we're gonna meet, or when he's gonna text me. We meet almost everyday but I hate not knowing it for sure. I hate surprises, I do. Also because in my experiences if someone doesn't text me back straight away it's because he's cheating, in jail, or wants to break up with me. So I'm constantly panicking and then he shows up fresh as a daisy which really pisses me off. Also I gotta say I'm not acting my best but I don't want to give him anything he doesn't deserve. I never text him first, I never call, I never pay, I never initiate anything, I try not to be too affectionate. I don't feel like hoping anymore, I've had just one too many terrible almost-relationships. Maybe it's just not a good time for us to be together? It's such a shame because we really enjoy each other's company and I like him
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Does that person makes you feel good and happy? In making a decision, consider also what you really feel about that person. 😊
ReplyWhen we're together yes, when we're apart he makes me so mad. I'm just very conflicted
ReplyTry to talk with that person and be honest with your feelings.
Replyjust try telling him that.
ReplyFirst, it sounds like youre harboring a lot of insecurities. Fears of him losing interest. Thats something you need to talk to him about. Whats most essential is that you talk to him. Tell him how you feel when he doesnt text you enough. If he says "No way im losing interest. I just hate texting." Accept that he doesnt like texting and try to retrain yourself to believe, lack of texting doesnt mean lack of love.
Tell him you want him to plan more dates. Tell him what you want and be up front because you have nothing to lose. If you lose him, he wasnt worth keeping because he gave up so easily. A man who is truly interested in you will do ANYTHING to keep you happy. You deserve to feel comfortable in your relationship. Never questioning each others feelings and the only way to do that is to have open communication.
I can tell you my signifcant other hates texting. He told me it doesnt mean he doesnt think about me. He said he thinks about me all day but he doesnt like to text. He proves to me all the time how much he cares for me when he is buying me flowers or gifts, asking me about my day to day life, asking my opinions / advice, telling me im beautiful and always putting in effort. I still make him text me a couple times a day though because i told him I like texting. Even though he doesnt like it, he agreed to do it. For me. If anything bothers me, I tell him immediately and he does that to me too. We are each others best friends. Never hiding anything.
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