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i really really need help

1 month ago · 1 · Stress, +21


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theres this guy who i know and really like. we're not really friends, we've only exchanged like 4 words. he has a gf, and obvi i dont wanna be a homewrecker. i never get nervous around guys. never. not once. but around him, my hands shake, my heart pounds, and i blush (which i never do). im so nervous around him. i hate his gf. theres a girl who always stares at him and i hate her for it. i know its irrational, but i cant help it. i hate those girls so much that i can physically feel it. am i psycho? why does he affect me like this? whyyyyy??

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  • Novni Guest · 1 month ago

    Sometimes we have an unseen connection with someone . The energy it brings can be unpredictable. . Be wise and think it is worth it ? Also you shouldn't put so much down for people who wouldn't spare you a second thought .. but that all said just tell him how u feel then at least you will know where you stand

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