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I remember 3 months ago when my boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. I could subconsciously see it coming because he would get annoyed with me easier, he took no interest in my life, my opinions, or what I looked like anymore. He was mean to me. Didnt even invite me to his birthday trip. When we broke up, he ghosted me for 2 days. I had to drive to his house and ask what was going on. He broke up with me at his driveway.
The crazy part? I didn't cry, I was relieved! I was cheerful as we broke up. I smiled at him, wished him the best and drove off and you guys, I never cried. To this day I haven't.
I thought something must be wrong with me, why am I not crying. Ive loved this boy for 10 years, we've been together for 4 years, he was in the marines so I had to wait years to get him back, he mentally abuses me and dumps me and I dont cry. I figured out it was because I cried all during our relationship. I cried almost every night for months, mourning the loss that when he finally set me free all I felt was relief. All I felt was hope for a better future. One future away from all this toxic bullshit. I didn't deserve to be treated the way he treated me. He even admitted to cheating on me for god knows how long. Its just crazy how fast I bounced back. I started dating immediately and Im a much healthier relationship now.
He of course, came back to apologize to me, told me the grass was greener and he regrets his choices. He told me he truly did love me, etc. He said he was so selfish and immature and he was sorry. I appreciated the closure and I told him we could never be together again but I didnt hate him and I wished him all the best. Truly, you dont know what you have till its gone.
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