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i’m not confident

3 years ago · 1 · Need Advice


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i don’t know how to be confident. i don’t know how to get the motivation to work out or anything but i want to love myself and the body i’m in. i just need advice. i’m vegetarian but i can’t go vegan because it’s expensive and we are broke. i just need help.

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  • Novni Guest · 3 years ago

    i'm sorry you feel this way :( i have bad acne and i used to be so hard on myself, honestly i still am insecure today. but i think you should surround yourself with good people. i notice i have a big change in personality when i have strangers vs my friends around me. i'm more cheerful and happy when i have my friends. because they support me and understand me. you shouldn't care about what other people think because they don't know you. each person has their own struggles and mistakes that it's not fair to judge someone by how they look.

    so basically, surround yourself with good people, learn to accept yourself because you only have one body, and if you want to change, take the action rather than complain. encourage yourself to work out by inviting friends or watching exercise videos on youtube. take small steps at a time and have patience. this all sounds easier in text but you gotta have the guts. and if you make mistakes, just tell yourself "it be like that sometimes." it works everytime.

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