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I need to say whats been eating me alive. I hurt the love of my life. I cheated. She never found out, but the guilt devours me day-by-day... One night she got upset about a minor incident, so I took the chance to break-up. She was devastated, and so was I. She couldn't understand why I didn't want to work through the small incident. It had nothing to do with that, I just couldn't face her anymore. She was the perfect person for me. She loved me. I failed her. Everyday it hurts, I regret it, and I hate myself for it. I was selfish, but I never wanted to hurt her. We haven't spoken for a while now. I hope she's doing better, I hope she heals and moves on to find happiness. She's smart, passionate and hardworking, I know all her dreams will come through. As for me, this is Hell. Don't hurt the person that loves you.
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As long as you know what you did was wrong, you will be forgiven. And it's up to you if you want to tell her what you did but either way it's a loss. You could always make up for it if she gives you another chance. I hope you're good tho
ReplyIt's never right to hurt someone, either you love them or not. We all mistakes, we are human beings. I am not stating this because I am tolerating you or I consider cheating because I DO NOT. What I'm trying to say is that, you've made a mistake and you accepted that fact. I know that you're sorry, through your words I felt your sincerity but you're too guilty that you've forgotten how love should be. Guilt is one dangerous thing, I've been chained by that for quite some time and now that I have finally accepted healing, I realized that forgiveness should also come from within. You should forgive yourself, you should heal, you also deserve that. But, yes BUT. But, before anything else please do not deprive the girl you love with the truth. It will hurt but she deserves the truth, she deserves to heal and move on. She deserves to be happy, and so do you. I do not say that cheating is fine because it is not, but we need to move forward and learn from it. The next time around, do not repeat the same mistake and if you know you still love her, there's still a chance for you. Grab it, do it for Her and for your love. But, do not expect for something in return. Just fight, and this time love her better.
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