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Hi there! I’ve come to this website for advice once before, a very long time ago, and it did not disappoint. I am a very inexperienced lesbian, and I have no LGBTQ+ friends to ask for advice on this topic. My heterosexual friends have all given me different messages. So here I am again, four years later, with some more of my gay problems. Allow me to lay out my situation for you all, I will try to make this short and sweet:
I am 20 years old and a junior in college. My major is human services, so I’ve taken many psychology classes as supporting courses. There is a girl in my Child Psychopathology class that I noticed straight away, on day one of class. I find lots of women attractive, but for me to develop a crush is very rare. And let me tell you, when I do develop one, it’s a real pain in the ass. I’m not sure what it is about the handful of people that have caught my attention in this profound way, but I feel some type of connection to these strangers that sometimes I do not even know the name of.
This girl in particular I think partly caught my attention right away because she was so.. I guess, “different“ from the other girls on campus. She wears leggings and a sweatshirt to almost every class, wears her shoulder length hair in a bun most days, wear very minimal make-up.. what I mean by this is she is not the type of girl you would normally notice right away, because there is not anything about her that necessarily would stand out to anybody else, but she stood out right away to me. She is absolutely beautiful, but is the type of girl that most people would look right over. Anyway... it is week 13 of the 16 week semester (week 16 being finals, so that means no classes). I have only just managed to work up the nerve to talk to her this past week. She was super nice, and gave me the notes that I had missed the previous week of class. I have no idea if she is gay (that being said, I have done some “research” on social media, and she does have pictures from pride. she was with a friend, so this does not necessarily mean she is LGBT+).
So, with all of this being said, my question is this: how do I get this girl’s number or Snapchat within the next 2 weeks (which btw, will only consist of 3 classes) and start talking to her outside of class? And then, assuming I can pull that off, how do I go about hanging out with her after I get to know her a bit better?
Please be kind. I am aware that I’m an idiot lol. Thanks for reading!
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I'm also attracted to girls but I have only come out to my close friends. It's hard to tell if she is lesbian or not but from the limited things you have mentioned, I think she might be bi or even a lesbian. I think you should just ask her snap chat or Instagram. Just bring it up in a covo. ”Hey, I was wondering if I could have the notes. Can you send it to me on snap (or insta)?” Say that at the end of class so you don't have time to write it. Or just say it to her straightforward, ”Hey, could I have your insta?” It's pretty normal for people to ask that nowadays. Maybe get to know her... Talk to her and stuff. Then once you know a bit about her, ask her out! Don't overthink it! I believe it you! ✊🏽😘
ReplyLet me know how it goes! Wishing you all the luck 😄
Replyjust go up to her and start a convo if u hit it up ask for her snap
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