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I left. I packed my things and left. 2 years of living together. 6 months of heaven. Well over a year of narcissistic abuse of all kinds. I don't know if anyone knows what I'm going through or how hard this decision was. The lies and cheating never stopped. He just got better at hiding it.
I want to turn around. I want to go home and beg. My soul is screaming.
Help. How do I stay strong?i need
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I understand. i was in a manipulative and abusive relationship, I'm proud of you for taking that step, i know is hard. It's ok to reach out for help that won't make you weak you're already strong for taking the first step. What i did was i went to a close friend i told them everything that happened to me. They offered me a shoulder to cry on and a place till i got back on feet. Take a calm breath and be proud and figure out your next step, and finding some hobbies or work you enjoy can help you to by keeping you busy and distracted
ReplyI know someone that put up with bullshit from a boyfriend when she was in high school. She kept saying she’d walk away but something always kept her there. She just kept delaying what she knew needed to happen. Here she is 15 years later, same fucked up situation. She wanted to get married and have kids and now her time is running out. It’s sad. It’s never easy. It’s almost always hard. You’re not going to be able to escape the feelings you are experiencing. But you can escape the abuse and your heart can heal and you can and will love again. You got this!!!! Just keep swimming!
ReplyYou're still alive. There's still plenty oportunities for you to start again a new and a better life. You may have a hard time to overcome the fear and insecurities of that bad experience, but you'll find someone who loves you and brings you heaven as you deserve. But please remember every single day, that wasn't your fault (: you're more than enough.
ReplyYou left, now focus on your life and seek therapy from the narcissistic abuse. Make sure to never let anyone hurt you like this ever again.
Stand up to any forms of abuse from anyone.
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ReplyHey,
you're doing what needed to be done a while ago. Although it may feel like a mistake, it sounds like you're doing the right thing to me. You deserve respect!
I hope you find what you're looking for out there:)
ReplyWhat a brave and strong thing to do. I can only imagine how hard it was to go through with going through with it, the idea of it has tormented me for a long time though I don’t think he abuses me, It’s just difficult sometimes. But well done on doing what’s right for you. Lean on your friends for support. I bet you lost some while your partner was like that, reach back out and explain, let them help you through and keep you strong !
Replyyou are amazing. not many people are brave enough to stick up for themselves!!
ReplyStay strong by realizing that you cut off a tumour. And celebrate that better things will come when you purge garbage
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