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Hello. Im 20 years old and i have mostly spent my whole life in my room playing games and had almost no social life outside. I am insecure, have social anxiety dont know how to make conversations and the only conversation i do is small talk. I never had a girlfriend either since my social skills are horrible. I never go outside and when i do, i never talk almost and im mostly cringe. I wanna make a change in my life and i need help to fix this! Thank you!
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I get where you're coming from. Counseling could probably help and Church if youre religious.
ReplyI should take therapy, thats true. Maybe thats gonna help. Thank you
Replythen re-invent yourself. change is for the good! you can do whatever you want.
fake it till ya make it!;)
ReplyIts really hard to just change yourself. Tried that several times.
ReplyTake a look at reddit.com/r/socialskills (I hope that's the right link)
ReplyThank you! I allready checked it out. Thank you for your advice!
ReplyYou need to jump into something that is outside your element.
Take a class, maybe a dumb art class or something. Every day, say Hi to whoever sits by you. Eventually you will have a conversation about your drawing or whatever that will lead to more....it doesn’t have to be an art class...could be a sport, or some other kind of group thing. It’s very important to just say Hi to the people who surround you, and eventually things get relaxed and maybe a joke here or there that will lead to conversation.
I’m pretty antisocial, but I am always going outside my element like that and I don’t think anyone would know how antisocial I am because I force myself to do these simple things.
ReplyIm just unsure what group to join. The thing is is that i cant really join groups like sports or art because i dont really have much money to pay such things. (Because its not allways free to join such groups here where i live) I will still try to find something i could try. Thank you for your advice!
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