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ive never been so drained when hanging out with someone. All that person did was complain, complain and complain the whole time. They kept on judging me like what I wore and how I look like. They always made things seem like it's my fault. They always talk shit about other people to me and act very differently when they see them. He's so too faced i hate her so fucking much.I can't believe i just only realised how toxic they are. I can't believe i said nothing when they treated me like that. They put me down everytime i hang out with them. They think im ugly because i don't wear high end brands so i felt so bad about my myself because i can't afford them like they do i felt ashamed because of them. They changed me they made me pay attention a lot more to what brands people wear and im not like that i never cared.. I always think i look ugly in pictures and he would say that he would "fix it" by editing me. whenever we go out he would just say so much negative shit that really fucking makes my day feel like shit. i cant believe i actually make effort to see him ffs. Yesterday i decided that this was the last time im going to hang out with him. should argue with him or should i just block him on social media? Is it worth telling him what he has done to me? I now realise what toxic people actually are.. I now know what people i should invest my time in and ones that i shouldn't be..
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I am so sorry you have to be involved with him. I am glad you see the person he really is. I would suggest to distance yourself from him. I would not argue with him because it may not solve anything since he has so many negative comments towards you. You can minimize how in depth you explain what he has done or you can just simply just say I dont think we should be friends or lay boundaries and if he cant honor that dismiss him. You should not surround or be entertained around people who bring you down or act fake towards you. Toxic people tend to prey on individuals when ideally they are prolly some shitty people in the inside so they can feel good about themselves. There are so many scenarios of toxic people, but at the end of the day you should decide what you will and will not put up with and if you do not put up with someone's behavior you do not have to be around them etc. I hope this helps a little just be mindful to not let someone have so much power to bring you down and you do nothing about it. that is a problem and you should work on that somehow to prevent more people like that from coming around you.
ReplySorry I've experienced similar treatment by others. Your best option is to get away from the toxic people. They totally drain you of happiness. Its your call how you wanna handle it. But maybe either tell him I dont think its a good idea for us to hang out anymore or stop talking to him then when he messages or texts whats up tell him.
ReplyIf he made everything seem like it's your fault, then he most likely won't take it if you start calling him out on his clown s**t. It's never your fault that someone else is being toxic, Unless you enforced it. He wants a STEPPING STONE signs of being a narcissist. I'm glad you realized this guy sooner than later. I suggest you just block him from your life, instead of confronting. he already seems like a jealous hater of you. it could take a slight deadly turn. xoxo
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