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I found messages between my mother and my uncle's best friend that blatantly show that she's cheating on my stepdad (of 13 years) with him.
I stayed home from school today because I'm actually sick for once, and I was making myself some light food when I saw very suspicious messages pop up on our iPad (that her phone is connected to), that's when I investigated and found them talking about shit I never wanted to know my mother would talk about-- let alone with someone other than the man who raised me. She then told me she was going "out" and that she'd "be right back" only to be gone for three and a half fucking hours. I was so angry and scared and confused that I took pictures of their conversation for "evidence". Now I have absolutely no idea what to do. My stepdad raised me, he knows me better than my biological father and I'm more comfortable calling him "dad". Him and my mom have three children together all ranging in middle-elementary school. I don't want to see him walk out on us or anything and I definitely don't want my younger sisters to grow up with two homes like I am, but I feel terrible not telling him. I also don't want to betray my mother or anything but I also think it's terrible of her to do something like this and always "jokingly" accuse my stepdad of cheating. I told my best friend and two of my cousins (both older than me, 18 and 30, the 18 year old is the daughter of the uncle who's best friend is talking to my mother,,, sorry that's confusing) and they all told me to stay out of it. I've done noting but cry and sleep all day. I don't want to tear my family apart but it feels terrible to just keep this sort of thing a secret... I feel so god damn helpless.
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That's awful. Sorry you had to find that out. It cant be easy knowing that in secret. Interfering could be like stirring up a hornets nest. They're probably right to keep out of it. However its all just plain wrong of your mom to begin with.
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