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So ok, firstly I'd like to state that I've never acted upon anything and won't.
I'm attracted to men, older men π€€
Say 15_20 years older than me.
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But recently I've realised the older guys I'm attracted to are married...
All of them, not just one or two, which could be coinsidence. But it's not, I'm serious.
I spoke to a friend about it, and he said your a homewrecker!!
I was like wow, back up a minute, I've never done anything!
He said oh I know, but that's what your classed as because your only attracted to married men.
I hate this title..
I don't wanna be classed as a homewrecker because of who I'm attracted to!
My point is, is being attracted to married men like a mental thing like seeing something you can't have..
Or
Deep down am I actually a homewrecker??
Advice please
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You are not a home wrecker until you actually start wrecking homes. Itβs a old term and I donβt like it either. It implies itβs all the womanβs fault. It takes two to tango. Tweak your preferences to divorced older men and have at it! How was your relationship with your father by the way?.....
ReplyYeah older divorced men. Lets have fun little hunny bunny.
ReplySounds like fun to me πππ
ReplySorry. Lol still married
ReplySee I agree with you right here, I don't think you should be categorised until the deed has been committed!
It does take two! I started thinking maybe I'd have to change myself to you know become attracted to other types. But I don't think it's possible.
Divorced older men, now I never thought about that one!!
Thanks for the advice π€π
Well I have to say it wasn't particularly nice, he favoured my younger sister, and still does. I'm the oldest and can't do anything right in his mind to make him proud.
To this day he still isn't bothered with me
ReplyI am not sure whether it's a mental thing. There are plenty of divorced men about you just have find one. No, you are not a homewrecker unless you actually wreck someone's home which you haven't done. Go for divorced or single men and have a Merry Christmas.
ReplySurely when people are attracted in that way lol they DO something about it?
Ive only been attracted to one older man UNFORTUNATELY who happens to be a bitter liar :) so things came to an end, our friendship was fake all the way through. His emotional blackmail and regular bullshit ge played every single day has all come to light and am lucky as just before it all went up in smokes I wanted to go find him put my arms around him and kiss him .. shit. Glad that didn't happen.
I have been a genuine friend and loved this guy in so many ways but one. I never found him attractive in that way or had a man older than 2 years above me , i know you like that but its kind of sickly to me.. Don't know, we are all different but you cant wreck a home if it isnt wrecked already.
Creepy shit this, but am glad its done and dusted and now I can really have fun with people younger or my age and have all my needs fullfilled without drama or emotions, which is something I learnt from him.
I do miss , his bullshit, we get used to people dont we. There's always someone new isnt there
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