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me and my friend were having a deep convo and i accidentally hinted that i cut and now i think she’s mad at me. i don’t know what to do cause she’s literally my best friend. she’s like “you can’t do that” like i know but it’s obviously hard to stop. i don’t want her to be mad at me for this so just what should i do. i don’t want her to treat me differently. i wasn’t planning on telling her because i knew she could treat me differently but i completely accidentally did. i didn’t want her to know for a reason and now i blew it and she knows and she’s gonna act differently.
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ReplyI don't think she's mad, I'd say she's hurt. When you're hurt, sometimes sadness turns to anger and its easier to be mad in a situation, rather than to let yourself feel the sad. You guys are friends. She obviously cares about you whether its something voiced or not. If you do feel some type of way about the whole thing, talk to her. Tell her you're sorry for expressing that you cut and that it made her upset. That you didn't mean to hurt her and that you did feel comfortable enough with your friendship to express that, which counts for a lot!
As for cutting, I know its hard to stop. Sometimes life just sucks. I can sit here and tell you to stop, but we both know its not easy. Sometimes we just feel sad, mad, lonely, scared, misunderstood, not good enough, the list can go on. Sometimes, all we want is to be cared or simply seen by that one specific person/persons, but unfortunately, thats not always the case. But you'll be okay. It might not seem like it most days, but I know you will.
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