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Has anyone ever been in a really bad relationship and felt stuck and unable to leave? How did you finally break out of it and leave?
I've been with someone for a few years now. It's becoming so clear that he doesn't really love me. He is emotionally abusive, has fidelity issues, and the plans we made are never going to come to fruition. No matter how much I give and try and say, it's not good enough. He always has someone on the line. He is very cruel with his words and actions. He truly could care less. I still care and somehow do love him despite all the shit. I see it for what it is and I'm STILL here. I think about leaving a lot, I have in the past and he always wants me back. I'm 27. I need to move on.
How do I do that? What is wrong with me.
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Maybe you are in a love/hate relationship. Walk away from him, and when you do write down every nasty thing about him and all of his bad points. When you do that every time you want to go back to him read what you have written to remind yourself of how bad he is. You don't need this horror in your life.
ReplyIt's probably not the best or healthiest advice, but it's how I did it- Find someone new.
I started dating my abusive ex boyfriend's close friend- put the nail in the coffin... although a bit problematic, it solved my problems being stuck with him.
ReplyThat's exactly what happened to me. It solves it with finality .
ReplyGirl you just gotta do it. Please take my advice when I tell you that you should leave sooner rather than later. I stayed with someone for 5 years just because I was comfortable. For about 4 of those years I wanted out but was just too scared to or didn’t know how to so I always just put it off. One day while he was temporarily living out of town I just called him up and ended it. It was really hard but it was the best decision I’ve ever made and I wish I had done it years before that.
ReplyI can relate to this. I kept saying "just one more chance - then I will leave" or " if she does this I am definitely outta here".....that day never happened.....eventually after a lot of love addict group meetings.... I out myself NOT my addiction to love/relationships FIRST.
I said the relationship is unsustainable. We are just too distant. Still she did not change at all , same old circular path
3 months later I met someone else. I told her. She changed completely and quickly....but it all feels weird now
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