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Sooo the guy from work that I like texted me and said I had let him down plenty of times and then I was like well I couldnāt read ur intentions maybe thatās why. Then he told me āI would neverā like just try to āfuckā. So I was like okay this guy really wants something and then later he was like people at work tell me Iām scared of you cause u wonāt even give me a hug or anything then he asked for a kiss. So I was like okay well I have to get to know him better. So we talked that whole day and the next day I was like good morning blah blah blah and we continued to talk. But he wasnāt the same, he was dry.. and I noticed the change. So I was just honest right.. like ohh āwhy are u being so dryyyy rn thooā itās something that Iāve said before even and he replied with ā chill this isnāt a relationship ā and I was like š¤¦š»āāļøš Iām very aware of that Iām just asking and jokingly saidā probably tired of me alreadyā and he was like ājust a lilā and I was like āoh okay Iāll stop bugging youā and he was like awww **my name** donāt be sad :/ āit was just a jokeā and then I was like ā yes, Iām upset because I really just wanted to get to know you first.. but it seems like youāre not ready and thatās okay too, sorry I didnāt mean to rushš. Then he replied to me at 3am with ā Iām not ready :/ ā and I didnāt reply because Iām yea heartbroken because It really seemed like he liked me I was sure. Idk what made him change his mind. Now at work I have to see him on Saturday and our co workers tease us to get together but theyāre not aware of what just happened and I donāt know how to tell them to stop with the comments. Do you guys think he just isnāt mature enough ? He is 2 years younger than me. Like I wish I knew what stopped him from going ): but I donāt want to ask him. I honestly didnāt see it as rushing because he was already asking for kisses too, like isnāt that rushing it too? I was just trying to talk to him and get to know him first. What do you guys think about this guy? Iāve been crying since last night šš but Iāve been trying to stop.
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This sounds like just-for-the-chase syndrome.
There are lots of people who love someone so deeply and chase for them. Longing to be with them, and if that person shows interest back, it stops.
It isn't a good thing and I know that it's hard to go through.
There also could be something that happened to him personally before all of this that altered the outcome of this relationship.
I hope this gets resolved.
ReplyThank you, I hope I feel better soon š
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