What are you looking for?
Featured Topics
Select a topic to start reading.
Why am I always the one to make you feel not okay... why me when I’m fact you are in the wrong but when I tell you how I feel.. you put me down, you tell me that I’m making you feel guilty, and then I’m always the one who feels bad, when I was already feeling bad about the way you hurt me. Why do you get to be the person that gets to push me around and you don’t have to say sorry but when I push you around a little, you get angry with me and I apologize and I see I hurt you and it destroys me, but when you jokingly call me ugly and stupid, and I show you that I don’t like that, you laugh ......... you laugh
If you see a comment that is unsupportive or unfriendly, please report it using the flag button.
More Posts
-
Here's a depressing poem about my life
I lie awake at 3 am thinking about you. Losing sleep, losing track of time, losing my mind. Everything reminds me of you. You are something forever ingrained...
-
I don't know how long I'll last
I'm someone who have been denying the fact of who I actually am. I do so, because that was something that made me happy and made my life never feel like somethi...
You dont deserve what you are going through right now. You need to decide whether you want to keep your situation or find someone who you deserve. No one should make you feel that way at all. You have to fight! You got this!
ReplyDear, you are not the only one. I have a great boyfriend, amazing. But he always played the victim and I always felt sooo bad for everything even though I shouldn’t. And because he is smart he realized that and got used to it. But then I connected with my friends again and told them my problems and it madd me stronger. I realized I have support. I got brave enough to tell him and I didn’t let him to be the victim all the time. And he changed. He even said sorry one which made me feel so good. And now it’s getting much better.
It really does depend on his/her personality and how much he/she values your relationship/friendship etc. but you just have to show this person that he/she cannot rule you like that. Trust me, it makes changes.
ReplyAbuse isn’t just physical. I’m in the same situation. I think this is a personality of a narcissistic person. They hurt you but ALWAYS make you feel like it was you and they did nothing wrong. It’s hard to understand how someone can play the blame game so well!
Reply