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How do you give second chances? I love my husband so much but i could not believe a word he says after what he did. The fact that im pushing him away also hurts me..i know its stupid but... I really dont have time to think of myself. We have a baby and i dont want her to grow up in a broken family.
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You also don’t want your baby to grow up in a home filled with resentment and no trust. Cheating is not okay. I understand if you want to try to make things work, definitely very selfless of you. Shows how good of a person you are. But personally if I was in your shoes I wouldn’t be able to do it. If he truly loved you the way you deserve to be loved and as much as you love him then he would have never even been tempted. He turned his back on you and his own baby. You deserve someone that would never even think of cheating on you. And your daughter deserves to see a true loving relationship to look up to later in her life. I understand it’s a lot easier said than done. In the end you just need to follow your heart and what your instincts are telling you.
ReplyI am sorry this has happened to you. I feel that if you love him and can get past the resentment, then you should try working it out. Maybe even try marriage counseling. Explain to him that he has lost your trust. Talk about how it will take time for you to build up trust in him again. Keep communication open but if it turns into yelling matches that is not healthy for your child or yourselves. If counseling sessions and open communication don't work, then it is time to think about divorce.
ReplyYou must forgive him and give him another chance at being the husband and dad he should be. If you keep pushing him away your daughter will grow up in a broken family.
ReplyMarital affairs are most times a symptom of a much bigger problem within a marriage. Find out what it is, and you will have your answer as to whether or not your marriage is repairable.
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