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I regret telling my current significant other my thoughts and opinions about his ex. I'm pretty sure he's going to tell her, and I'm going to be seen as an asshole.
They're best friends, so of course he's going to tell her. I've learned that he thinks I have a problem with her, solely because she is his ex. I've also learned that no matter what opinion I have of her, he will always come to her defense.
And the fact that he admitted that if they both believed in long distance relationships, he would still probably try and be with her?
Ouch. I should just stop talking about her, and learning about their past. It hurts because I love learning about him, but everytime her name is brought up, it really only creates a rift between the two of us.
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Hope you don't mind me asking but how long have you been with this guy? How long since it's been that your boyfriend and his ex had broken up? In my opinion, you do appear to come from a place of insecurity, when you're constantly mentioning about and having an opinion about your boyfriend's ex girlfriend. Why and what's the purpose that you're trying to aim for by speaking about his supposedly Ex-girlfriend? What are you so worried about when it comes to his Ex-girlfriend? Is it to feel better about yourself? Do you feel the need to prove yourself to your boyfriend that you're better than her? I have to say, it's a bit immature and uncecssary to go on about someone who your boyfriend is no longer with.
He choose you remember and not her, that's why he's with you. If it bothers you so much, why don't you met her in person and have your mind put at ease. Tell her and ask her questions about their relationship before you (your boyfriend & her). Why doesn't he suggest to video call her, since he claims that she's his best friend, right? If she's his best friend, shouldn't you at least meet her? Actually see and hear from the person live on video call. Hear from his ex-girlfriend/best friend own words, than what your boyfriend is telling you. How do you know that he isn't lying to you? That he isn't lying about this person being his ex girlfriend and his best friend.
Just make sure this boyfriend of yours isn't making things up and lying to you. If all he has mentioned is true,it's reasonable as to why your boyfriend would think that you have a problem with her. I don't think his comment helped when he said, if him ans his ex believed in a long distance relationship they would still be together. You're constantly mentioning about her like there's a significant problem. Is she bothering your life and deliberately interfering in your relationship with your boyfriend?If the answer is no, then you should drop it and move on.On the other hand, it's normal to want to know about your partners past relationships but don't take it personally.
_-Jas
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