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2 years ago · · Stressed out,
I'm introvert. 18 years old girl. I've been even more shy before, i am better now, but i have a problem with men. I just don't know how to talk to men. With women is so easy, it usually just flows, now when it comes to guys, it like I freeze. I never had a boyfriend, and I have a crush on a guy that is my class, but I don't know how to talk to him. I dont think that i ever said more than 3 words with him. He is cute and smart but he is outgoing, he is the only boy in our class, so he is around girls all the time, and somehow i freeze everytime i get close to him. I feel stupid.
And it is not just with crushes. I freeze with every men i talk, its like a fobia. I just don't know how to talk to them. I always end up imagining that he is flirting and i freeze. Idk why, its jut weird. I cant keep a normal conversation with a guy like the way I would do with a girl. Its annoying.
Idk what is wrong with me. With my crush i know that is because i have feelings for him, but come on, i freeze with every single man I talk to, its like i dont feel comfortable or something.
Just wish i knew how to talk like a norml person. Make friends and stuff