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ok, I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. I met this boy in 9th grade last year, lets say his name is mark. he was my bio partner and we talk and got very close quick, then I started to like him a lot. and he lives in a neighborhood behind my house, so I would tell my parents I was going for a bike ride and me and him met up and biked to a secret trail. prolly our 10th time meeting there he kissed me. (on his b day) and he started to like me but he didnt tell me. and on the weekends he would sneak over to my house from 12am and stay till like 3. and we kissed and eventally we did it. then before summer me and my best friend had 2 guys sleep over at my house. my bestriend liked 1 of the guys, and the other guy liked me. but I also invited mark over, and the 3 guys were there and the 2 guys me and my friend invited really wanted mark to leave. so I told him I wanted him to go, and then I had sex with the boy that liked me that night. ik I was a slut, ive slept with 3 guys at age 16. anyways mark stopped liking me after he heard I had sex with someone else but I thought mark only wanted to fuck me, but he liked me a lot and I Never knew. so me and mark got in a fight and stopped talking for about 6 months, and last month we started talking again, and now I like him more then I thought was even humanly possible. but he says he doesn't like me, bc he thinks we won't work, but he finds me attractive, and compliments me and talks to me 24-7 and is very protective of me, we hang out 24-7. and I told him I like him and he doesn't feel the same, but his actions say sometime so different. we haven't done anything besides kiss, and every time after he kisses me he said he shoudlny have done. he was just horny. but its not like he wants to take advantage of me, he holds my hand and kisses me so softly, he dog sits for someone in his neigherhood a couple times a month so 2 weekends ago he invited me, I got there at 12 at night and we just went to bed, I snuck out of my house bc my parents would never let me leave that late, so I set alarms on my phone so I didny sleep to late, anyways we got in bed at 12 and I was in his arms and he was holding me and I woke up at 4 and we were still like that. and I ubered home at 4:30 and he wouldn't go to bed till he knew I was home safe. he just really cares abt me, and knows me so well, he can tell how im feel by just a normal sentence. someone please tell me if you think he likes me?please, its more then just a crush hes like my best guy friend n he means everything to me, its just so hard tho bc I like him and he flirts but he claims he doesn't like me, and please don't say hes trying to take advange of me bc he has touched me or done anything sexual since we became friends again, so please tell me if u think he likes me? and why ?
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There is a slight possibility but at the moment he doesn't trust you or really does believe you are not for each other.
Replyya ur prolly right
ReplyAs you get older, you'll realize and start to understand one phrase which will come up over and over again. "Trust takes years to build, but only one second to destroy.".
You broke that trust with him during your self-proclaimed "slut" time when you sent him home. Another phrase that you will understand when you're older which will make you a better person is, "Things worth having are never easy to get and if things are easy to get, they're not worth having.".
Take those quotes and reflect on your journey with this young man. His trust in you is not there for him to get hurt again. If you want to take this to the next level, you'll have to have that discussion with him and keep these two quotes in mind when you do.
Replythank you so much for the advice!! and i will keep those in mind. it’s just i’ve apologized and he tells me that’s not the reason he doesn’t like me. he just thinks we won’t work out
ReplySome guys (like me) are onions. We don't want the real reasons or feelings to be known and hide them with lies like that. There is a chance he's 100% right, but sounds to me like he doesn't want to have a larger discussion about how he felt when you kicked him out and how he may now view you as different than before.
I myself have tried to get better at being more direct, but still can't help myself.
All I can say is that if the relationship is important to you, then keep remembering that it'll take a while to build up that trust. It's almost as though it's a test of patience - you may have it or you may not.
Good luck with whatever you decide and keep the two quotes in mind!
ReplyI do think he likes you whether he realises or not I had a similar situation where my best guy friend (had a crush on him for the longest time, he was legit all over the place with how he felt and) I never knew if he liked me that way or not cause he’d say things then act completely different then get over protective and mad and when I got a boyfriend that wasn’t him it completely tipped him over the edge and once things ended with the other guy cause he was a pretty terrible person. He realised that he could treat me better that it’s easier to protect me being with me and that he really liked me and hated seeing me with him and it is the best relationship in the world. I think he likes you he’s just too scared and maybe don’t do what I did (but my guy was all over the place for a couple years so understandable I’d date around a bit he did too) but kept coming back to each other and I see that in your situation too so good luck x
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