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SO a little background, I am a gay 22 year old in my first year at university in the UK.
I have previously dated and was previously married when i was 18 (No regrets!)
One of the boys on my course is gay and also very attractive. We are friends and i had no romantic feelings towards him and i have also slept with a couple of people since being at uni. He recently came round to watch a film and just chill which is quite normal as we normally just chill in his flat. Though while he was here i just felt so comfortable and since then have been thinking about why i am not feeling ready to have an actual relationship with anyone. I have been single for over a year and haven't wanted to connect with anyone on that kind of level.
But since that night I have been trying to think about what i actually want and have found that i just feel very confused. I am perfectly happy and not at all dissatisfied with how my life is going. I just dont know why i don't feel ready to date.
Then earlier this week the previously mentioned hottie messaged me to say how he felt very comfortable with me and wondered if i would consider being friends with benefits, this took me by surprise as i had not considered that he thought opf me in that way and had also not thought of him in a sexual way either. This turn of events has left me even more confused about how i am feeling as i am not bothered by hooking up with people mostly strangers. But this is making me feel differently about the whole thing.
I just don't know how i should be feeling or how i actually am feeling and am feeling a little lost in my own mind.
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Just except the offer. Who knows where it will lead you to.
You clearly want him.
ReplyIf you don't want a relationship I suggest not doing it, me and my husband started out like that. While I don't regret it because I have 2 great kids I wouldn't trade for the world, I wish I had more time to do whatever I wanted before settling down. When you'er with someone a lot and become intimate with them it can quickly turn to love even if that wasn't the intention.
Replyhey, you figure out your feelings? and how are you and hottie?
Replyyeah, what jcoolapplesauce said. how are things?
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