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So my older sister is kinda famous (I’m not gonna say who cuz then I’m not anonymous) and it’s hard. She’s an actress. Don’t get me wrong I love her and I’m so happy for her, but I kinda get bullied for it. So once I was in the school yard during lunch my best friend was sick so didn’t really have anyone to hang out with and I was alone. These three older girls approach me (I was in grade 2 at the time) they start saying stuff like “oooo can I get your autograph” and “where is your sister” “put in a good word for us”. Once they were standing less than a feet away from me and started pushing me around (mind you these girls are a lot bigger than me). They continued saying mean stuff like “you think you’re better than us just because you sister is famous” and just generally mean stuff. I’ll spare you the most brutal details, but they did this every time they could find me alone. Once it went too far. I tried to run away from them but the ended up catching up with me and they pushed me har into the cement... I almost cracked my skull open a bit and was rushed to the hospital, I tried explaining what had happened but the girls had already said to the teachers that they “found” me like that. That I must’ve tripped... I tried to explain but they said “you must’ve really hit your head”. Nobody believed me except my sister. So me and her explained it to my mom (my sister had seen me with bruises before). I transferred schools but now we have just moved again (my sister had a new big movie) and I transferred schools and guess who’s going to that school... one of the three girls. She approached me one day and threatened me that if I told anybody anything I would get seriously hurt again.. what do I do now? Now that the corona stuff is happening it’s ok... but what about when school starts again? I’m so scared please help... any advice at all?
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Hello. I'm sorry this is happening to you, also moving around can't ve easy :/ do you have the courage to try and record everytime the girl is around, then maybe that would help, maybe you'll get her saying some nasty things on the recorder that can make you take it to the police? What she has said is a straight up threat, and should be taken very seriously..
Other than that and this mental torture, i hope you are alright, senfing you my best whishes 💛
ReplyI hope this advice may help you:
If this was happening to me I would first either wait for her to slap me and abuse me any sort of way and then hit back. I know it's not the best choice but she would be surprised and she doesn't have her friends with her to back her up. Now that's the last resource I recommend either recording it or avoiding her completely. I know that's hard to do, but make sure you're never alone with her around. Please be safe and I'll keep you in my prayer.
ReplyYou dont have to be afraid of her. I understand what you're going through. I was totally hated by most everyone at school for no reason. The way I felt you can't fight an entire school. It gradually and i mean slowly despite lots of bullying and intimidation leveled out to I didn't have to fear as much. My problem was I changed schools and could not unchange. Well anyway I agree with what the person said about the recorder get her on it and use her own words against her. Report her for harassment. If she ever hits you beat the daylights out of her. I once had to do that to get somebody to leave me alone. Its within your right as self defense. Sorry your going through all that i hope it gets better for you.
ReplyDon't back down or show them your fear. Bullies WANT to feel like the dominators in power. This doesn't mean you have to be mean or bully back.. but just show them like "Leave me the hell alone! I'm not afraid of you!" Like stand up to them and only fight back if it is in defense. But most important is to keep your dignity and integrity; they can't make you any less of who YOU are. Always be yourself AND show no fear. Just stay strong and remember that you will get through this, because eventually they will get tired of it. But also, pain does not last forever. People are just less mean and more understanding as you get older. I'm not gunu lie to you, I'm gunu be real about it: teenage years are bad, preteen years are the worst, but after that it's pretty much ok (: i know i probably didn't give the best advice, but I just want you to know that it WILL b okay. I'm also not trying to be cliche but i just know this to be true! I wouldn't say it if it WEREN'T true. Good luck to you! <3
ReplyYou must tell your teacher and head of the school as well as your parents and sister. You don't have to put up with this. If you like you can put in an incident report to the local police about what happened naming this bully, and tell the bully you have done this and if and if anything more happens to you she will be caught out straight away. I have done this before. An incident report is just a piece of paper that you have and write on the top "Incident Report" and under that write down that you had your head smashed to the ground by three girls. Say one has turned up at your new school and is threatening you and you are concerned for your safety. Make sure you put her name on this. Send this or take this to your nearest police station and make sure this bully knows about it. Also you can take out a restraining order against her. Best of luck.
ReplyI do not have much experience with this but you should tell the teachers and principal. Also try to somehow document via recording and taking pictures if they harass/hurt you to have proof if they do not believe you. If they ever hurt you immediately tell someone! I wish you the best of luck and whatever happens this is not your fault. In most case, people bully others because they are insecure and jealous of you.
Replystand up to her if she pushes you push her back.bullies target weak people that don't stand up.
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