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So I've gotten to know this guy at work, we're pretty good friends at this point and we're even talking daily for quite a while (not as much anymore due to me trying to distance myself). A lot's happened, I'm honestly just really confused. He has different ideals about relationships (meaning he's more into fucking people without knowing them and I'm a more conservative person). Also, there's this whole thing with him being in love with some girl he dated for a while and she basically dumped him because he wasn't religious like her so he's still kind of not over that. But, I hear so much stuff from other coworkers saying essentially that he's interested in me and I genuinely like him. I'm just afraid he doesn't really like me as a person and it kind of just feels like he's leading me on sometimes.
I'm kind of trying to just ignore him more/distance myself in the hopes I'll get over it, but it's hard when you really like someone.
Not to mention the fact that I also really value his friendship even if he is an asshole occasionally and so I don't want to permanently mess anything up or make working together awkward.
Does it ever get better?
What should I even do cuz at this point idek...
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It sounds like he likes to sleep around combined with he’s probably using that self destructive lifestyle to get over the ex. TV scripts are big on pairing up coworkers.. it’s a script. In reality.. if this ends after a few months you will have to see him every day at work... and everyone will know.
There’s a valid reason some companies prohibit dating between co-workers.. things can go awry and the company gets dragged into it with harassment lawsuits... another problem altogether.
People seek romance or extra marital affairs at work because it’s a low hanging fruit.. women trust the men they see everyday and men see the opportunity this creates and can’t resist the low hanging fruit. Neither scenario typically ends well.
And men and women really can’t be friends.. what’s there to talk about .. football or heels? My experience has been for women to draw the boundaries and keep work professional.. and definitely don’t mix alcohol with male coworkers because bad decisions are always made after a few drinks. Best of luck.
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