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I regret getting married.
She didn't even really want to get married, but I pushed it because we were talking about having kids and, as a gay couple, I wanted the family to share a surname seeing as we can't share DNA.
No one proposed, we just got on with planning a 10-guest registry office wedding.
I posted here 9 months ago when she told me she no longer wanted to have sex with me. I can only guess it's been a year or more since we had any semblance of a sex life.
We try to talk, but she says my communication is bad, or weird. I admit that I have always found it impossible to talk about how I feel, but I don't think the way I talk is weird.
I think she's overbearing and unable to see anyone's perspective. If something isn't how she would like it, it's wrong.
So I have spent my time with her constantly trying to do things how she would like, but I get it wrong, my self-esteem takes a dive, rinse repeat. She IS right, most of the time, and I learn a lot, but it makes me feel like a child. I have managed to keep myself alive and well for 30 something years, but she makes me feel like I have no clue or common sense.
Maybe our personalities just aren't built to be successful together.
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why don't you just get a divorce? Talk about it and recognize why she is treating you this way, as well as let her know what she is doing is making you feel bad about yourself. You shouldn't have to feel this way and should free yourself as well as her.
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