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hi,
just need some advice, ok for a lil background info. theres this person x who has been a great friend since she joined the school we've always been really good friends but this person y joined in 7th and we became like best friends and yeah we've had many fallings outs in the middle but we always patched up after that. currently rn, in 8th person x and y have become really good friends and have started leaving me out of everything. now they're just best friends and i dont even talk to person y anymore cuz shes so obssessed w person x. and ok person x is still fine she's not that bad in terms of talking and all. but omg, person y is so so obssessed w person x i cant-. ive confronted her about this multiple timese but she just denies it, i feel so replaced she(person y) is supposed to my best friend, i have evn talked to person x but shes just like noo hahah and the topics gone. i mean we have many memories and leaving all that just cuz shes found a new bestf is really hurtful. she doesnt even text me back (person y) and when she does its only for hw or something like that. im left on read half the time. it seems like even if im gone from her life she wont care.what do i do?
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i think if you've tried confronting person y about it and they still don't talk to you unless they need you, then you should drop them. at this point, i think they might be just using you for your homework. you deserve better xo.
ReplyHey there. I'm a 7th grader and I've been through the ame thing. I guess I just moved on from those friends, but if you're there and willing to fight for the friendship, have them both over to hang and talk together just the three of you. Sit them down and tell them how you are feeling. If they brush it off tell them that it's really important to you. If they still won't listen you'll know that it's time to stop the struggle. Find a new friendgroup. You won't see them anymore anyway unless you all go to the same High School next year (assuming that your school is closed because mine is). Keeping your feelings from them will only make it worse. You can do it.
Reply(I wrote above comment)I guess you might have to do a zoom meating or something instead of hanging out but still.
Reply(I wrote above comment) I guess you might have to do a zoom meating or something instead of hanging out but still.
ReplyThere is an old saying: two are company, and three is a crowd. Usually when there are three one gets pushed out. You are lucky that the other two haven't ganged up on you and pushed you right away.
Replyim worried that they will and one of them is supposed to be MY BESTFRIEND.
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