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i hate myself so much. why must i be fat, dumb , useless and ugly? why cant i be pretty, perfect body, good at academics and not be a useless prick. i workout everyday but i can never be good looking. i study so hard from 4-7 everyday after school and even during the weekends, i study the whole day till 7. but why am i still so bad at my academic? why cant i at least make my parents proud for once? why even when i get an award for improving they still arent satisfied? wyh must i be such a burden to everyone when i rant to them? why cant i have the perfect friendship? my friendship never lasted for more than a year since primary school. and im over it. when i have friends, they either use me or just feel bad for me and talk behind my back. i would literally do anything for them but they dont even care and think the world revolves around them. im so done i want to move to another country and restart my whole goddamn life.
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If you were made pretty, given a perfect body right now for free no strings attached, you still wouldn't be happy. You'd want an even more perfect body and eventually to be the prettiest person on the world, and even then you'd still want more angles more subtle curves e.t.c Don't believe me? Look at plastic surgery, how many started off wanting something only to end up with irreversible disasters. Look at social media as well, there are people who're probably super pretty and have perfect bodies but not happy.
You workout everyday, and that is fantastic I commend you for that but how is your nutrition?Much of weight loss is down to the nutrition
If you're studying that hard and still aren't doing well, then maybe see if it's your study methods hampering you
Again studying 3 hours a day is really impressive considering how hard it is to do.
It's not that your parents aren't impressed, they believe that you can improve. If you were at a lower level and improved to where you are now, they'd be impressed. They just want to encourage you to the highest level you can attain
This however is different to them scolding you because you don't have perfect grades, if you've improved and they're not satisfied it's on them.
If it sounds like I'm not taking your side, believe you me I am on your side
ReplyHello,
Please do not hate yourself. You have a beautiful heart, which many people lack.
And one day everyone will see your kind, loving, gracious heart. Nobody will love you until you love yourself. Do not lose hope. One day everything will be okay.
All you have to do is to love yourself and do not compare your life with others.
It is not necessary to move to other country to restart your life. Just make promise to yourself to live your life differently from now on and your entire life will be restarted.
ReplyHey,
I sorry if my comment hurts u in any way or turns out not to be that useful.
I wanna start by saying that before anything you need to learn to love yourself I know it's so hard to do that when people don't treat you well and you don't really have any close friends but trust me ,sometimes even when you do have close friends you still feel lonely.
Instead of finding your flaws try finding the good within you . It's fine not to be pretty or fit or good in academics and what not . But the moment you find your strength ,your flaws wouldn't matter to you ,remember no one is perfect and we don't have to be perfect. Don't you ever feel like there isn't anything good about you. There is ,it just that your are hiding it from yourself(stop doing that okay)
All you need right know is to love youself ,accept yourself when you start doing that ,you will be happier ,and when you are happy your family will be happy for you .
Hope this helps I don't wanna give steps telling you to do this and that because I am not living your life .I want you to figure out the solutions to your problems on your own ..Lay your own path to your happiness.
ReplyHi ❤
You are too precious to describe yourself like this .
The problem is not your appearance or your intelligence level .. No . It's you don't give a chance for yourself to see the positive things in yourself. Try to boost your self-esteem. Try To always remind yourself that you are doing Well and that you are beautiful.
No one is ugly in this world . No one . Everyone has his own distinctive beauty.
About your Weight , If you are not satisfied with it , That's Fine But Don't get depressed over it . I'm proud of you that you are working out everyday . Believe me , Good result will be noticed soon so Be patient and don't give up .
You seem like a motivated and determined girl. You do your best in everything.
So Keep doing that and The light of success will come to you soon .
I wish you all the best In your life ❤❤
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