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I'm confused af:(( I really really love this boy but I don't think he feels the same way...like ig he considers me as a gud frnd...I'm done trying like Is it worth the wait? Do u think I should just let him go even if its gonna break my heart or Should I risk EVERYTHING and keep trying :"(((
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ReplyHow the hell is this a supportive comment???????
ReplyPinch his butt and tell him its taco tuesday whatwhat
ReplyBrilliant.
ReplyGuys have a common problem where they hang around a girl that they really like and want to have a romantic relationship with her but don't know how to tell her so the girl ends up putting him in the "friend zone" while she has romance after romance with other guys.
In my experience - guys love to chase, and girls love to be chased. If you are not being chased by this guy - he just sees you as a friend OR you offer no "thrill of the chase" since you're always there for him. If you want to be more than "his friend" - stop being there constantly at his beckon call, maybe try putting some distance between the 2 of you and don't be overly concerned with his love life; find yourself an outlet so you focus on something else in the meantime. Maybe he'll realize he misses you and will turn his focus to chasing you. And if he doesn't - at your age it's not the end of the world. A related issue: be careful not to be the easy rebound IF he gets involved with a girl he's crazy about and it ends badly for them - there's no "thrill in the chase" with an easy rebound - and he'll move on after he's over his wounds.
Keep in mind you can certainly take yourself off the market and wait around for him with the hope he will fall in love with you, but.. time is gold...spend it wisely. Good luck.
ReplyThat is game playing. Don't be interested in his love life for sure. If he has another girlfriend then it would definitely be over and would never be rekindled. When it's over it is over.
ReplyTysm:)
ReplyDoes he have a gf? Flirt with him! Ask him out! If not, it will hurt like hell, but you will not spend your whole life wondering what might have happened.
ReplyTell him how you feel. Let it go there. If he returns the feelings ok but if not youll know what to do and where you stand.
ReplyThis is up to you. I know I wouldn't waste my time waiting for some guy but you can ask him if he wants to be with you so that you at least you know where you stand.
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