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Hey girl. I know you're going through a lot right now. I also know you never pictured yourself being in this type of situation again. I think what's hurting you the most is just not being ready or prepared for what's going to happen next. You're holding on to anything that feels familiar to avoid feeling uncomfortable, but that's not really helping is it? I know how much you loved her but she's not in love with you anymore. In fact she's already found someone else who makes her happy. And you're mad about that because that's the one thing you couldn't do, make her happy. And it's killing you right? I mean she told you before that she wasn't happy but she assured you that it wasn't because of the relationship. She promised you guys would never break up. She would even say things like "When we get married I want Mexican food for the catering". Or "when we get a house I really want to get a dog". You honest to god never envisioned your life without her. And just like that she traded in and found someone else. So..here we are back to the single life. Its horrible honestly. You're in such a hurry to find your next rebound so you don't have to think about her being with someone else but the truth is you're going to think about it No Matter What! You're pissed off and sad and that's ok. You have a right to feel all of those feelings so stop trying to pretend like you're ok. Another thing I've noticed about you is you tend to equate you're self worth to how much emotional pain you can handle. And that's really not ok. No body should be saying to themselves "Well I can deal with her bringing her "friend" over to fuck when I'm not home, I think that makes me pretty strong and amazing". Like what!! No! You shouldn't be "ok" with that or think that's "fine". You're literally like that meme of the dog in the burning room saying "this is fine". Wake up you are worth so much more. It isn't going to matter 10 years from now if you were the "chill ex girlfriend" Because she won't give a shit. And if she did it's too late. Stop trying to please the people who are hurting you. Even if they don't mean to hurt you stop going out of your way to take care of them and making sure they're comfortable. Because guess what, It's making you Uncomfortable! I know you want to make everyone happy but its not worth it when you're not looking out for yourself. Someday the right one will come along and they'll be everything you've ever wanted and more. But until then let's just focus on feeling happy by ourselves. I promise this pain won't last forever and every day you'll wake up stronger than the day before.
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"Another thing I've noticed about you is you tend to equate you're self worth to how much emotional pain you can handle. And that's really not ok."
i would tell people my story, and they would say i was strong. it surprises me every time. i never understood what they meant. you do what you have to do to get through the hard times in your life. it's not exactly as if you get a choice, right? to me, strength is not determined by what has been done to you, but by who you are and what you become in those moments of hardship.
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