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I feel so unloved.
Looking back at my previous relationships, I've never been in a serious relationship, and I'm 30 years old.
Everyone around me is married or getting married, while I'm sitting here in my apartment, on a Friday night, feeling so unloved and alone.
I'm so alone that sometimes I just get ahead of myself. Every time I like a guy, which doesn't happen very often, I get ahead of myself and make the whole thing, bigger than what it is. I expect too much from nothing that doesn't exist yet, and I jump into liking the person, and giving in to the person quite easily and rapidly.
I feel so stupid. Why do I jump into it so quickly?
I wish things were easier with me, and I wish one day I get to meet the right man, and all these feelings of unworthiness would vanish.
I feel so lonely and miserable. I feel so unloved and I'm tired.
I don't even have good friends to compensate for that, and I ended up alone and lonely most of the time.
Sometimes I feel that the only thing that is good about my life is my work. Beside my work, I've got nothing.
I've lost my passion to so many things, and I feel unmotivated to engage in any activity.
I don't feel young anymore. I know I'm "only" 30 years old, but I feel that I'm just wasting my time being alone, and I have no idea how to feel young and worthy.
I feel that I'm missing out on having my own family.
Single and 30 makes me feel such a big loser. I feel pathetic, and worthless.
No one loves me.
No man ever loved me.
The only man that ever said "I love you" in my life had tortured me, manipulated me, cheated on me and made me feel like a worthless piece of shit. It took me forever to get over him, and I still haven't forgiven myself for what happened.
I don't even let him hold me back, I move on, and I do my best to meet and open up to other guys, and even fall in love. But I'm not worth it for their affections.
I just don't know how to meet guys that want to settle down, and be with me. I don't even want to get married, I just need someone who wants to be committed to me, and make me feel good about myself.
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Churches are good places to meet up with others.
ReplyChurches are for praying. Work is for work.
Love is during vacations in Portugal I think with some good Spanish macho with sexy eyes
ReplyHilarious!
ReplyYes churches are the best places.
ReplySometimes I question churches because I think how many people actually need to be here to ask for forgiveness. When can be religious and not go to church. Just because you stand in a garage doesn't make you a car
ReplyI'm irreligious, I wouldn't feel myself if I go to church.
And I personally don't bond with church goers in my community. (nothing against church goes or believers, just not for me)
ReplyHey I’m 30 and single. I dumped my ex cause I was an empath, he loved me and I thought I loved him.
No matter.
Right person will come when it’s time.
You are worth and enough
ReplyPlease don't compare yourself to others, if everyone was on the same page, there wouldn't ever be a good story to tell.
As for friends, ill be a friend if you need me to be!
ReplyI think in our life everyone has come across these kinds of thoughts. I can assure you that you are not alone. We live in a selfish world its better to love ourselves first. I also think i am a loser but thats a bad practice but we still think like that we compare run and be competitive. I would say to not be so hard on yourself things will work out.
ReplyIf you are seeking someone to feel good about yourself, you're setting yourself up for another disappointment. While we've all been there at one time or another... don't give the power over your own self-esteem away. Do just one small thing everyday to better your life. Things will fall into place as you learn to love yourself. Cliché, but true.
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