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Kat,
I still honestly have no idea why you broke up with me. Sure, you gave me reasons but they don't make sense to me?
You repeatedly said a two hour drive didn't bother you and I always made it a point to split the trips evenly so neither of us would have to drive more than than another. You even said you ENJOYED the drive. Like WHAT?! Why tell me that this isn't a problem the whole time we're seeing each other but then turn around and use it as a reason to break up?
Remember saying that you'd rather not see each other a much as we'd like vs seeing each other too much? Well, you also used that as a reason to break up as well. Which doesn't make sense because I told you many times that we could EASILY hang out more often. I can't even count how many times I said I could take a day off for a road trip.
You have no idea the amount of confusion that I feel on the daily trying to understand your reasoning. Not to mention how used I feel. If I was a rebound for you then JUST TELL ME. That's something that would actually make sense to me. The reasons you gave me? They make no sense to me. None. You said you prefer clear communication and to work through problems but then did the exact opposite of that. You made no attempt to fix any of this, I was the only one trying to put the pieces back together.
I've been gaslighted before and I gotta say, this looks pretty similar. If you see this then I'd like you to know that I don't hate you, I hate the confusion and internal conflict you've given me.
Best,
The guy two hours from you.
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