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Soo let me tell you something... I'm a 20 year old adult, I'm graduating college this year and I still live with my parents. But I kind of am tired of living here, I feel helpless. I just feel like my life totally revolves around them only and I can't take my own decisions. Whenever my parents fight ( which let me tell you everyday ), I have to always interfere and solve their conflicts. Mom get's stressed about cooking so I cook and try to help her as much as I can. I don't get much time to focus on my work ( I do some online work ) and can't concentrate. This quarantine has been so much worse cause I can't even go out and meet my friends or get some fresh air. I really wanna move out and start over. I also suffer from depression and Insomnia the reason being my mostly my family issues and some future related stuff. This atmosphere is stressing me out and no matter how much I try I feel upset and tired at the end of the day. Don't take me wrong I love my parents and they love me but I just feel like I'm at a point where I need my own life. Do stuff for me, is that too selfish?? Is it really selfish to think like this?? Please help me. Let me know if I'm the only one feeling like this. ❤️
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Girl, congratulations !!!! I am so Happy for you !
That's such a big accomplishment !
I pray you'll find a job soon after your graduation and also a job for you whilst studying so you can save up some money and move out !
Eventually you will have your own spot and routine and everything will evolve around you
ReplyNot in a negative way "Everything ... around you"
Just your own space and atmosphere
ReplyOh yeah, you are definitely NOT the only one feeling this way. Oh Boy do I wish I lived on my own, But I just started college (19) almost 20 even tho my mom promised me to get a dorm, my grandmother wont let me
And me my mom and little brother are the most disfunctional family everrrrrr
And then they yell at me for moving out, but I don't work.
ReplyNo it's not selfish. You need your own life. You have needs too. Sure it's good for you to help your mom and stuff but yeah you need to focus on yourself too. Just be prepared because it's not easy if you have nobody to call on when on your own when you need help. I know how you feel the quarantine made my family super grouchy irritating and whatever.
ReplyYou are more than old enough to move out. Your parents are still able to look after themselves so do it. Tell them you are moving out because they argue every day and you can't handle it any more.
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