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I feel a little at loss, I see all these girls managing to have guy friends and what not yet when I try shit like this happens:
Every guy friend I've had in the last year has always expected more out of it,
First guy, I announced EVERYTIME i met him him/spoke to him, that we would just be friends, nothing else, nothing more. We had been friends on and off for about 10 years. Anyhow, when I started seeing someone and I told him (he was making sexual references) he stopped talking to me so abruptly,
Second guy, been friends for a couple of years, I've been trying to help him get into a relationship etc, and last time I saw him he made the remark 'want to get a hotel room
Third guy, has a different girl he's in love with per minute to be honest, if I make the smallest of comments about me and my man he goes off on one calling me all names under the sun telling me how awful of a human i am and how his life is so shit,
Fourth guy was my best friend for a long time then we just kind of grew apart but he's just tried popping back into my life trying to bury himself nose deep into my one on one sex life,
These are only the worse ones, i don't know what I'm doing wrong, I feel guilty like I've led them on but I havent,
I always tell them if I'm not comfortable with something or if I'm in a relationship, or if we're just friends,
Yet the message never seems to clear enough,
I just feel so crappy....
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ReplyMy opinion is that a girl and a guy can never be just friends, one is always atracted in some way to the other one, maybe not at first but over time one of them will have feelings for which they are Not sure then end up falling in love, feelings of jealousy will pop up specially if one of the two start seen someone or hangs out with other guy friends, yep that's how it is...
ReplyI think they can if they have boundaries but most guys have other ideas. I mean talking at work here and there....but I keep my distance. Maybe being friends with a gay guy. Then there is no attraction.
ReplyWith keeping distance it works but not if the person's talk almost everyday
Replyyup, i learned that the hard way tbh!
Replyto be frankly honest i a male that that like t be friends with females not for that i am attracted to them or something like that, it is just that i find them more interesting and more enjoyable to have conversation with. i think that hearing the other sex opinion and how they see some instances are more and more interesting than those of the same sex. true i might have approached a girl or two cause of attraction but never let it to be in the way if i had any intention to pursue this attraction i would declare it from the start. now there is a lot of people who fall in the same kind of guys you have mentioned but there is always the other kind so i would say if you want o have friends with guys don't let this experience be the mark of it you may find that guy who would appreciate to have you as a friend.
ReplyI understand this completely. guy friends tend to want to mess around with me but i had to be firm and stand my ground. i cant stop the guy from being attracted to me but i dont have to just say yes. you choose. its always a stand your ground moment.
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