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Hello everyone idk if anyone is gonna read this but I just wanted to vent iam a Muslim 16 year old I love my religion although I can question some things but that is on,y because of my age am a very curious person when I was 11? My dad made me wear the hijab I didn’t understand at first But I was willing to try it like my mom but on day one it made me feel uncomfortable and my mom was aware of that but didn’t say anything for years iam now 16 and still wearing it my dad has anger issues and he’d hit me or yell at me whenever he got mad which made my relationship with him horrible I can’t talk to him about it because am scared he’d hit me and call me a whore or that I was a horrible Muslim but I believe a person’s faith shouldn’t b judged off of their appearance I feel trapped and alone my mom knew but she was just wanted me to wear it too because she thinks a women HAS to wear it Idk if a women should wear it or not but I know that it should be a women’s choice to wear it.
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ReplyGet yourself an education, a good job and get the hell away from your abusive parents.
ReplyYes ! Education is So important, God Bless !
ReplyWomen's Lives Matter.
ReplyEveryone's does
ReplyI'm sorry you had to go through all this. Yes, it is a choice. The choice to wear the hijab is a matter between you and God - no one else. Forcing behaviours only creates resentment and pollutes good intentions.
It might be worth exploring where your parents are coming from here - do they have good intentions or do they just care about what other people might say? If you can get them to open up to you, maybe you can reach some common ground. I do however understand this might be difficult given your dad is abusive.
Your safety ultimately comes first so I would prioritise that. If you have any Muslim friends who don't wear the hijab but are upstanding Muslims, maybe you can introduce them to your parents to show them it's okay. If your parents attend a specific mosque maybe you can speak to a religious counsellor or imam there and get them to speak to your parents.
It's so hard at your age because you're almost an adult but still legally dependent. In my opinion, your safety ultimately comes first so I would prioritise that. If open and gentle conversation doesn't work, then your next option is to seek advice from a school or religious counsellor. Your last resort would be to hold on until you're 18 and independent so you can act safely.
All the best.
ReplyYaa Allah, May Allah make your situation easy, Babygirl
Everything happens for a reason, I would suggest you can take more knowledge about Islam, God en His Book <3
Watch lectures on Youtube of Nouman Ali Khan/Mufti Menk
There is one of mufti he posted about mental health on his chanel, check it out!
You are not alone, okay ?
God wants you to get closed to Him, Wants you to cry and make yourself vulnerable in front of Him on your prayer math,
These lectures are really going to help you, you have so many options to choose from, Sister !
I know You will get through this
WA salaam 'alaykoum <3
ReplyObviously some people might think lectures pshht what are those going to do ?
Well the only power you have is the one over your mind, the information you take in, And the information found in Quran are Words of Allaah swt, when we just read the interpretations/translations they're always so basic and never take the real Arabic grammatics and knowledge/power into consideration, where as khutbahs especially from NAK (Allahuma Bareklahu) Help us understand way better, Words we say daly like Bismilllaah, we think we know the meaning but there is so much more knowledge and beauty behind that word, SubhaanAllaah ! I am telling you check them out, Insha Allaah you will benefit from it
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