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We were together for almost 9 months. And for the last two, he just gave up. His responses were one word, he stopped showing any affection. He refused to say "I love you." I know he must have lost feelings, and I'm angry and hurt he strung me along for two months instead of just breaking up with me. Even now he refuses to just admit how he felt and instead spins in on me, saying I'M the one who lost feelings. Which isn't true. I'm angry and hurt and I want to hate him, and I want to forget he exists so these feelings for him will go away. But I still love him so much and I still hope that it's not really over. That he'll come back and we'll be okay. But it's over, it's really over. I don't understand how he went from saying he loves me and calling me the girl of his dreams to just...not caring? And I want him to be happy but I hate the thought of him happy with someone else. I don't know what to do. I just want to stop feeling this way. I don't want to be constantly reminded that he just doesn't care anymore. He asked to be friends after days of not talking after breaking up, but not because he missed me or wanted ME around. He was just lonely and had "no one else to talk to." Which only hurt more. It's been days since then. I know I need time to move on but I just wish I could get over him now. I hate feeling this way.
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I totally relate to this. I'm currently going through this now , but I know with my first love it took me 6 months to move on. And each day it got easier , and easier . If it's real it'll come back , but in the meantime we have to learn to love ourselves more than we're loving them . We have to use that time as wisely as we can . Get to know ourselves , get to the roots. I'm going through this right now , and it's so hard to pretend like I'm okay all the time , but in the end you will be! and what's meant to be ; will be. Whatever you do ; do not blame yourself . Be patient . And trust in this process . It will make you stronger .
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