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I woke up early to have some time to myself with some peace and quiet without the news on and my husband vomiting negativity and "The world is ending" "Trump is going to kill us all" for a few minutes. As soon as I sat down with my coffee, he comes out, turns on Morning Joe and starts with the "doomsday" talk. If I ask him to back off and let me wake up, and I am the asshole with my head in the sand.
Now, when he doesn't want to talk about something or he thinks I'm negative, he won't stfu.
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Sometimes space helps. You could always get up and walk away when that happens sometimes. Both of you need to recognize each others needs. You could also just keep saying yeah and go on til he shuts up. If he won't STFU that's when you should walk away imo.
ReplyI have walked away. He is verbally, mentally, emotionally and psychologically abusive. It's time to walk away permanently. This is a tiny drip of water from the iceberg. Talking to divorce lawyers. Oh, financially abusive. I work. He doesn't but he starts fights about how the money is spent. Can't anymore. He is making my anxiety worse and me suicidal. Counseling? That's for pussies according to him. Fuck this marriage. I don't love him anymore. Don't even like him at this point. He'll be homeless if I leave, so I worry about that, but not sure if I can take it any more.
ReplyWhether he will be homeless or not is not your problem. He will likely just go back to living in mommy and daddy's basement. Like so many other soyboy leftists.
You don't have to stay like this and you are strong enough to walk away. You deserve better.
ReplyYeah. I am conservative and Christian. He is liberal and Buddhist/atheist. I should have known this wasn't a good union. I could handle it if he weren't so darn MEAN and HOSTILE towards the whole world. I wake up every day wondering what he's gonna bellow and bitch about.
ReplyThat's what media has done, it has emasculated men, instead of taking action for his incompetence he wants mommy daddy government to do something about it, he needs to stop watching the news, and start thinking about how he can be a useful husband, he is lucky he has a wife.
ReplyYour husband is very negative. Have your morning coffee right away from him. It is horrible hearing negative things first thing when you wake up. I watch our news and USA news in the evening. Your husband is really getting carried away if he thinks Trump is going to kill everyone. Perhaps he needs help.
ReplyHello. We are in somewhat similar situations (though my husband is conservative and thinks that the Left is going to kill us all). I, too, work while my husband does not. The constant negativity is awful and never ending. I am proud of you for taking the steps to get out. For what it is worth, you are definitely not the only one.
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