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Im a 14 year old girl and i just came out as bisexual to my friends this year... The people where i live are also very religious and so am i... the last time i dated anyone was one years and a half ago (i was 12 pfff), it was a boy that i kinda still have feelings for and so he does, but i will never think of getting back together cuz he is such a trash person and since we broke up he started dating many girls in the same time (and blames it on me)... However my friend showed me this girl who was also bi and looking for a gf (shes cute ngl), i didnt talk to her yet bcz i cant decide if i stay all halal (cuz im muslim and dating is not quite okay in our beliefs (especially same sex couples) or give it a go and move on (kissing and stuff not involved)... Keep in mind that she is 17 wish means she a little older and that makes me a little uncomfortable... and people here are very toxic, the reason why i have all my social medias private, trust issues... Im really frustrated and dont know what to do?
It doesnt matter if youre religious or not (muslim or christian or jewish or or etc)... Just tell me what you think :D
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I think that if you are still in school you should wait until you leave and are more mature to handle the problems involved in dating and in a relationship with anyone. Your school work is enough for now without bringing problems into your life.
ReplyYour topic is a difficult one especially because religion is involved. I know people who belong to the LGBT and at the same time are religious (Christians). They just ignore the people (religious or not) who have something against them being LGBT. They also tend to focus on and befriend only positively influential people (non-racist, non-sexist, etc.). Maybe you can do that. Find people who are more open to your situation not just in your area. To start, your friend that introduced you to the girl maybe one.
ReplyIt seems to me like you don’t even truly know this person. Along with the five year age difference that complicated things, I would just focus elsewhere. You still have so much ahead of you, and plenty of schoolwork to keep you busy!
Best of luck! :)
ReplyIn Islam it is okay to have feelings for the same sex but you cannot act on them. The same for opposite sex attraction except when it comes to marriage. I know that you know that dating isn't okay but I'm just saying don't do it with someone that is that much older than you.
Good Luck!
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