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2 weeks ago ·
I keep watching people advise others that changing yourself for someone else is never the solution. You shouldn't be the sacrificial sheep that changes to appeal the other party for them to accept you. You should be you.
I myself believe that and that is exactly what i advise too.
It never occurred to me that ... if every person starts doing that, will it not lead to endless loneliness? Theoretically speaking, if everyone waits to be accepted by the other, it will never work out will it?
Then what is it that really leads to a successful relationship? Compromise? Does the perfect compromise ever happen between the two parties?