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I’m 14. I just moved from Oakland Ca to Lucerne Ca in July. That’s a big city to small town. I can either stay her with my mother and worry that my friends will forget me and just never really like I belong here or I can move in with my father who’s never really been apart of my life in Redwood City. I’d be closer to my friends and my hometown. But if I move I’ll be under a home with a brand new set of rules. If my big brother gets into an argument with my mother, I can’t protect him. The school here has no programs I’m interested in at all. If I move with my dad, there’d be many programs for me but I’d still have to adjust to everything. If I stay here I’d cry and probably still feel like I’m being forgotten. Do I stay with my mother or move with my father?
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ReplyHey I understand it's a hard choice to make. You love your mom and feel safe because you've always been with her and your father hasn't been in your life so when it comes to home you feel safer with your mom. BUT you don't like where you moved and the school sucks with no programs you like and you probably have little to no friends. At your other school you have friends and programs you like and you probably like being in a bigger city. Honestly I'd say go with your father can build a relationship with him to have both of your parents in your life and you'll get to see your friends with a good education. If you don't like it go back to mom we all need to take risks in life. With your brother I understand you love him and want to protect him but he's your big brother he's got to figure it out and tell him some tips on what to do when he gets into an argument. That's just my opinion though I want you to follow your heart that's important. If you need to get out of your comfort zone that's okay you can always go back if things don't turn out well. Hope all goes best :) <3
ReplyMoving with your dad seems the best option. Your brother can learn to stick up for himself. You will be near your friends, at a school you like, and just have to adjust. It would be better than staying with your mum and crying unless you want to try to make new friends and attend that school with no programs you like. You should be happier near your friends.
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