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Right from childhood, I have been taught not to expect. Expect nothing from anyone. But I have been experiencing that we try to stand and fulfil others' expectations. You know why? Because we feel moral obligations.
Different level of expectations in different situations.
The world is living in hope.
As I said, "different situations, different expectations". For instance, parents have expectations, teachers have expectations, siblings have expectations, pets have expectations, neighbours have expectations, friends have expectations from us and we also have some from them. Wait! love also have expectations.
Yes?
What is the case in one-sided love?
Is it wrong to have expectations?
When we truly know that this person can only be in imagination, in a daydream and not, in reality, it is wrong to have expectations.
When we have calibrated it for thousand times and have come to the conclusion that yes we cannot be together, it is wrong to have expectations.
It is easy to understand but yet hard to remember.
The expectations are not made superficially, they come from within. And the idea of knowing the fact that in no case it can be fulfilled is very hard to accept.
Again, the question iterates, "is it wrong to have expectations?".
When we know that this was the person we had imagined our whole life with, the person we feel we are most comfortable with, the person we wanted to be with, the person we wanted to know about, the person whose presence made the moment so remarkable, the person whom you relate every feeling with, the person about you think with the question "What would be his/her reaction if he/she would have faced the same situation?", the person whom you are ever ready to meet, the person whom you are thinking about right now after reading this. After feeling so much, sadly the same question pops up again.
I shouldn't have met this person. If he/she cannot be mine for even a minute. When we are restrained from expressing our feelings to them. Spending the whole day and coming to the night with a heartache.
Why cannot we expect when all the expectations are natural, are true, are honest.
Why fear from a person whose only intention was to love you!
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