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How To Forgive
Forgiving is a genuinely complicated thing. We are expected to let go, and not be mad. In order to free ourselves. So how can you free yourself and forget, if it has already broken you? Forgiving takes time. So, let's take this step by step. First, think about what you need to forgive, second talk about how it made you feel and why it hurt you, third remember your strength and your worth, fourth ACCEPT what happened and understand you can't change it, fifth speak forgiving into existence.
I did research about how to forgive and honestly I hope it works. I have so much weight on my chest and I want to let it go. I want to be the best me that I can and be happy in every way possible. I lost myself due to being cheated on. I want to forgive them for hurting me and making me terrified to trust again. I want to be able to love full heartedly and trust with no remorse or feeling that it'll happen with every relationship I am in. I allowed it to break me and make me suffer no matter how hard I tried to let it go. I was broken and lost for so long . Truthfully speaking I still am. I am not able to trust because no one has ever earned that. I think this hurt me so much because my heart is entirely too big. I put my all into every individual, even when i shouldnt. I could be broken to my last piece and if you need me id still be there. Infidelity hurts so much because no matter how bad I hurt from it I could never recuperate from the act. I could never break someone's heart because I cheated on them. It isn't right and I could never be that person. I am beautiful and I deserve the world. I should never ever prevent myself from truly experiencing love because I'm so scared to get hurt again. I am worth the world and one day someone will give that to me. I will not sit here and allow my heart to break over and over because a man cannot love me correctly. I am deserving and no matter what, there is a man out there willing to give me the love I deserve. I accept that I had my heart broken multiple times by people I cared for. I accept that I allowed it to control my life, but I know that is not the way to go anymore. I am thankful for everything that I have in life and I know that I am worth everything in the world. I am now vowing to forgive. I am not forgetting, but I am letting go. I do not need an apology or a message about why. I am just letting go. Thank you for allowing me to see my worth and I am appreciative of all you taught me. I am ready to let go.
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