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So like, I have a friend since elementary and we've been text/email/chat buddies ever since. There's nothing special about what we talk about - just small talk tbh (which I'm not a fan of, but I'm trying to be nice so I just talk whenever I can) During quarantine, we've been talking about meeting somewhere to catch up, since we've been closer than before (still, nothing really special about it, haha). And like, one time on a sleepover, my friends somehow got the news that we were supposed to meet, and they were like, "so you're going somewhere to have fun?" and I say, "yes?". "and, you're not dating?" I say "We're friends". and they're like "naaaah you're clueless."
Now, because of what they said, I'm starting to think of this from a different perspective. I'm not really sure about that, I don't see other obvious hints, and he gets easily bored and just wants to hang out whenever there's a chance, so I don't think of it being more than just friendship. He also gives big presents (I've received lots of chocolates one time because he knows I loved that, but not only to me, and there are also other people I knew he'd given awesome gifts to), so not sure about that either. We still chat almost every day, and he often starts the conversation when it goes to a dead end lol. I think we've gotten closer because I used to help him whenever he's on a hard time, and because I'm one of the people whom he talks to when he feels like shit.
Now this got me thinking and a little curious, but I'm hesitant to ask the person because it could get awkward. Also, I don't really have special feelings towards him right now, too, so not sure if this is worth contemplating about. I guess I should stop overthinking and just see where it goes, huh? Just putting this here because I can't believe that got me thinking haha.
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ReplyOoh okay, thanks for the insight :) He's a nice friend so I think if things go more than friendship, I do think there's no harm in giving it a shot too haha. I'll see how it'll turn out!
ReplySounds awesome!
ReplyI'm sorry if this will sound a bit rude but is there's anyway I can contact you to know how did it go I'm just curious about it
ReplySure, I don't mind. But if it's okay I think I'll just get back here for another reply to update you, will that do? :) I mean I often visit this site and check on posts anyway. Also, I think it will take a long time before we get to go out together because of COVID-19 :( so it'll probably take a long time before I can send an update haha
ReplyYeah that'll do
ReplyHi there, I didn't forget the little promise xD Well, you're actually on point. I got a very chill (almost lazy lol, but probably just to avoid awkwardness) confession a month ago. Was crazy, like, I really didn't have much clue. I'm still not sure, and I still don't have super special feelings, but I'm also glad he's not demanding me any answers. Like I'm hella confused. I surely want the experience but I don't want it to be like that-using someone for the experience instead of focusing on the person. I'll think about it with our precious friendship in mind! ^^
That being said, I hope you're having a bearable, or great day :))
ReplyHe is probably still thinking about what he should do next or he is probably hella confused how you were able to hide ur feelings all this time
But honestly I have mad respect for you for keeping your word I'm sorry I'm replying a week late it's because there was a problem I think with the site I thought they took it down but I checked today and it was working so yeah thank you for keeping your word and I hope for both of you the best and to find happiness in your life ๐
ReplyHello~ no worries! It's just that when I think back on that day, this post comes to mind, and your message of course! I do like to keep my word as much as possible, and because there's something endearing with how we come back to something like this after a while. :) Thank you for your wishes, likewise. I wish you all the best in life too ๐งก
ReplyAlso maybe you should try talking to him ask him if he wants to facetime you ask him if he wants to hang out maybe and just try to be simple and yourself
And if he asked you if it was a date or something tell him that if he wants it to be a date it's his call I forgot to mention all this in my comment so yeah here you go
ReplyMy point is try to get yourself in his life ask him about things he loves try and help him with his stuff (if you can of course) and if he is the one I'm telling you he will never let go of you
ReplyI'll keep those things in mind. Thanks for the advice :))
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