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Hi! We’ve been together for almost 4 years. His greatest fantasy is to have a threesome. Told him we’ll do it once (just to fulfill it) and he liked it! So the next year, he asked again if we can do it. It hurts!!! But I agreed not once but twice this year. While making love, he asked again told me to download a dating app. I asked if he’s serious and said yes. I can’t do it anymore. It feels like I’m tolerating him to cheat but with my permission. So I decided I’ll find a girl, and break up with him. Am I being selfish? ☹️ Anyways, 4 years (almost) is so toxic. I just can’t leave him. Maybe because he’s my first to almost everything. Don’t know what to do. I’m so tireddddddd.
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Well have you tried talking to him about it? Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years and he really wants to try a 3 sum. See though I'm only 20 and I don't look very old so I told him I'm just not comfortable with trying it yet, maybe when we're older. He was understanding of that. Hopefully your boyfriend would be the same if you explain that you don't like it. If he doesn't understand or respect that then he doesn't deserve you.
ReplyNever do that. It would ruin your relationship. I never have and never will.
Replymy boyfriend asked me to do that once. well, actually, the girl asked us and his facial expression was classic. lol so, i whacked him and turned her down.
if you aren't comfortable something, you aren't comfortable. you aren't being selfish, but you could be overreacting (like i do). you told him yes once. logically, he's bound to ask again. just tell him the truth. tell him you didn't like it, and see what he says. you are already planning to break up with him. so if he breaks up with you, there's no loss.
as far as finding him another girl? nah. i wouldn't do that.
ReplyThe threesome thing yeah it wrecks relationships. He don't see what he's doing to you apparently. He needs to know how you feel. He seems to only care for what he wants which is selfish. I wouldn't look for another girl.
ReplyAnd that relationship is now dead. Because he's learned it's a boundary that can be crossed, the second you withdraw he'll start cheating.
I have always been 100% agaisnt any form of outside source of sexual actions. It's sick, it's degrading and it's only popular because of boy talk.
Get a man who will cherish you and you alone. This relationship is done. Cut it off. You're worth more than this.
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