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1 year ago · · Need Advice,
My friend got a boyfriend 8 months ago.
I didn’t know much about him for the first few months but then he started posting things on social media and my friend would tell me things about him that were a bit unsettling.
We’re all under 18, but this kid has vaped and smoked weed. He also uses slurs and has anger issues along with other offensive beliefs.
This has put my friend on edge multiple times. She’s called me several times in the middle of a panic attack caused by something her boyfriend did or the way he made her feel.
She claims she’s in love with him so she doesn’t want to leave him. I don’t think she thinks she should leave him but there have been a few moral red flags. I know it’s not really my problem but I don’t want my friend getting hurt anymore and I’d prefer she stay away from people like her boyfriend. I tried my best to give him the benefit of the doubt and sometimes he does good things but I just don’t think it’s enough.
If my friend is happy, maybe I should just let her have that. I don’t know how to bring it up with her though. I really don’t know what to do