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5 months ago · · homophobia ,
Recently a guy in my school, that is known for being the "ladies man" and really flirty has been talking to my bff. He's also been flirting with another one of my best friends in our friendship group for 5+ YEARS!! This causes another issue because he doesn't want a gf, and while my bff is fine with that the other girl is not. He's playing them, and it hurts to see the destruction of a friendship happen in front of you.
Anyway so a few weeks back my friend told him she was bi, I already knew this, and he told everyone... legit everyone. She has a bad homophobic family and the people at our school have a bad record of being mean/making fun of another gay girl at our school. She was broken, I cried because I couldn't do anything about it. He made excuses like; I didn't think it would be that big of a deal, no one will make fun of you like they did her (the other gay girl), because I know people who think your hot.
And now, shes talking to him again and all the girls are in love with him, except for me, and they all have seemed to have forgotten what he did.. including her.
(also it was only the other day he was fetishising bi girls in a really creepy way)
I guess I wanted to vent but I also need advice, should I forgive him too, I don't want him thinking that he can get away with things like that.