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No one will ever want to spend the rest of their life with me
3 years ago · 4 · girl problems, +3 · Explicit
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I have a
Bad voice
Bad hair
Terrible and crooked teeth (its ridiculously bad which leads to...)
Bad grin
Ears are poking out
Smushed nose
Lazy eye for anything 10 feet away
No jawline
Short
Skinny
Extended lips in width and length because of cleft lip surgery
No hair can grow where they covered the hole from where the cleft lip was. So theres always space in the middle of my mustache. Shaving it puts more focus on my big lips.
Hairy as fuck.
Ugly personality.
I always hear people say that its what inside counts. What if you're ugly on the inside too? Girls treated me like garbage and even my female friends growing up want nothing to do with me now. Even my best friend (female) growing up blocked me out of nowhere. Everyone assumes I'm a pedophile (thats what i think happened with my friend also) and i feel disgusting in my own skin.
Another cleft lip left over, if i eat or drink anything, boogers and liquid will immediately run down my nose. Removing any possibility of any dinner dates or anything to do with food or water. All they'll see is me blowing my nose every minute. One girl (in fact the only girl) who liked me dropped me in a second because i had this issue)
I look OK if i clean up but that takes high maintenance. Asking for someone who is midly attractive (5-6) is already asking a lot. Having someone who i love that loves me unconditionally is what i want more than anything in the world. But i know it's not going to happen. Its one of those gut feelings and I can't shake it. No matter what i do regarding self improvement. I'm going to die alone.
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There is a saying: beauty can be on the inside, but ugly goes all the way through. You will have to improve your personality.
ReplyI ain't gonna lie to you, people can be shallow af. Admittedly, the whole boogers and liquid flowing from your nose... yeah that's gonna freak almost anyone out and that's not exactly easy to explain on a first date.
I might suggest foregoing eating activities for dates, instead do something else. Go to a local park, zoo, pavillion or any kind of natural beauty sort of place. Thay way you can still get that quality time together and you're not having to blow your nose every few seconds.
Since you have issues with facial hair, do without facial hair entirely. Rock it the only way you can. I'm part Native American, so I have a bald spot under my chin and specifically only under my chin. So if I let mine grow out, I have a painfully obvious hole in my beard. So I understand how that feels. Granted I've never cared enough about myself to actually care about that. So, whatever.
But for yourself, keeping the entire thing in check is always an option. As far as your personality, only you can change that and it's not easy. The questions should surround things like "what makes you so difficult?" Are you being unrealistic? Too easily upset? A ticking time bomb? It just depends on what you think the problem is and who knows, what you may view as an issue may not even be an issue to someone else.
That's catastrophizing 101. The automatic assumption that things will always go wrong. So you're fairly low down and you may feel like you're being realistic but you're not. That's just pessimism and you have to learn how to break that.
It's perfectly fine to be cynical in some circumstances, but not in every situation available. There's a lot to figure out and if you really want to have a decent personality, you're gonna have to do the digging.
Replyjust saying, people can be toxic af.
ReplyNo,you are not ugly. You are different,unique amd amazing in your own way.i hope you find someone that loves you for you
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