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My little kitten died today in the morning ππ’.
I've been crying since the morning.....she was like my child. I loved her so much and now she died of sickness.. I failed as an pet parent.........I'm shattered and broken. I don't even want to come online anymore and shut myself in......
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What makes you feel that you failed? Some things are beyond our control, you can't prevent everything. I am sorry though, I used to have a cat with my ex. I loved that cat, every morning he'd come up and headbutt me. If you don't know, that's how cats say "I love you".
Much like yourself when Alvien died, I was devastated. But it is an unfortunate part of life. Death comes like a thief in the night. Excluding yourself from others isn't going to make that better.
Normally you're cheery and kind, but even the best of us can fall. It's ok to mourn, it's ok to feel that regret and sadness. It's not wrong. Whatever happened with the poor kitten, I am 100% certain. It wasn't your fault. You don't strike me as an abusive person.
ReplyHi.... I dont know I feel like i could have done more for her.....she was sick i phoned doctors and gave her meds yet I hugged her and told her goodnight and in the morning she....she died...... Maybe i could have done more for her.... She was my light, my life, my child yet i could not take care of her......... I loved her so much she was what kept me going on she was the angel in my life...she was my only family and now....i have no one....
ReplySometimes there's just nothing we can do. Some things are out of your power. I know it's hard and I know it hurts. You're not alone in it. I imagine you were a fantastic parent for your baby kitten. Like I said, you don't strike me as the kind of person to just neglect your loved ones, pets/kids/whatever.
It's ok for it to hurt. That's how you know it was real. Right now, it's still fresh. Expect your emotions to be turbulent, expect to cry a lot, expect to be angry. But don't just focus it all on yourself. Things happen.
You're ok. I know you did your best and your baby knew you loved it. That much I am certain of
ReplyThank you for you kind words. I feel better reading all these comments and I'll try to move on...its hard but i have to.
Replyit will be okay love, trust me
ReplyIm so sorry for your loss and I hope you find peace and joy despite the challenges you just went through. Lots of hugs,
rainy x
ReplyThank you....it means a lot to me.
ReplyI can totally relate to what your going through, I also had a cat that died. It feels horrible, it feels like youve failed. Trust me, I know. Im so incredibly sorry for your loss.
But sometimes what you tell yourself isnt whats reality. The truth is, you have no control over others lives. The one thing you can control is your life, how you choose to live it. These things do happen and it feels terrible, but the best thing to do is to concentrate on what YOU can do next. Dont get me wrong, keep your cat close to your heart, but dont let it drag you down.
I constantly see you on this site, lifting up others, helping people. But sometimes heros need the help too.
Wishing you all the best.
-Journey
ReplyThanks buddy.... I'm no hero i am just like you all. I try to help thats all. Its going to take me some time to move on....its not easy but i will. Thank you.
ReplyIβm sorry for your loss. ;/
I hope you feel better.
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